Family & Relationships
Mediation is a structured attempt to resolve a disagreement with help from an independent facilitator. It can be used in different kinds of disputes. Preparing for it means understanding the issues, available information and what authority each participant has to agree.
General information only — not legal advice. This Australian overview is not a statement of every state or territory’s law. Check the jurisdiction and current requirements with an appropriately qualified adviser.
A mediator’s role is different from acting as your lawyer. The suitability of the process, confidentiality arrangements and the legal effect of an outcome need clarification. Safety concerns or unequal access to information should be raised when the process is being assessed.
Organise the following material you already lawfully hold. This is a preparation list, not a complete evidentiary requirement. Ask the verified adviser what they need and how to send it securely.
Keep originals and dates intact. Use a short initial enquiry for a conflict and suitability check before sending sensitive documents.
Who advises me independently, and how would any outcome become legally effective?
Ask the adviser to explain the assumptions behind the answer, any missing information and what would change the proposed next step. You can request an initial assessment without assuming that full representation is included.
Use the topic-specific question above to agree on the purpose of the meeting. Ask whether the appointment includes document review, advice on options, a written summary or any further action. Confirm responsibility for dates and lodgement rather than assuming an enquiry transfers that responsibility.
Compare the defined work and exclusions, not just the initial price. Ask about GST, third-party expenses, later stages and what happens if the scope changes. Our legal fees guide explains useful questions, and the comparison worksheet helps record proposals.
Explain what happened and the outcome you want in ordinary language. Mention related decisions, notices and existing proceedings. The adviser can assess the appropriate scope and whether a referral is needed. Explore the Family & Relationships category for connected issues.
Mention connected issues when you enquire. One engagement may not cover every part of your situation.
Use these primary resources for background and current pathways. A state-specific resource is an example for that jurisdiction, not a rule for all Australia. Broad regulator and tribunal links do not establish your eligibility or a legal entitlement.
Federal family-law information; check the separate WA arrangements where relevant.
Federal Court jurisdictions and procedure; not all disputes belong in this court.
Our document lists, questions and examples are original editorial preparation prompts. Follow the relevant authority for current requirements and seek individual advice before acting.
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